2021.09.20 06:13 geo_urge Fuzzy eater
Henlo, I got a new wet scaly baby about a week ago and we hit it off immediately. I love him, he doesn't love me back, sorta like my bf. But he tolerates me I think, due to the fact that I had frozen bloodworms on hand for his arrival and he went.to.town on them.
That was lovely and all but the following day when I wanted to give him pellets due to having to go to work and the worms being frozen - he didn't eat the pellets? What's more he'd eat and spit it. I assumed he was full or whatever so I left and tried it a couple more times over the past couple days but he just kinda looks at them and leaves like they're some sort of peasant food.
Hell literally not eat for a whole day so I gave up. Thus this Lil B (that's his name, not raising the tone) is getting fed worms every day against my wishes, so I'd like to transition him into pellets. Any thoughts on how I do this other than starving him? Should I? Starve him?
Just concerned about his shrimp mate, Cumbia's continued aliveness.
Thank you friends
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2021.09.20 06:13 q-knight-writer Confronting my toxic parents
I have been dealing with my narcissistic, manipulative mother since I was a teenager, so when I was 20, and had enough money, I left. Fast forward to todsy, I am 27, in a happy, loving marriage to my husband, and we have a brilliant, beautiful 17 month old daughter. . . My mother and stepfather live in Canada, and the last time I saw my mom was in 2019 for my baby shower. My mother stirred the unnecessary drama pot then, which caused issues for me and my husband. Whsn confronting my stepfather that I felt the issue needed to be addressed, he told me "(insert husband's name) does not need to get involved. This concerns you and your mother", which I knew was a bad idea because the issue at hand DID involve my husband. It was "resolved" without my husband being able to say his peace, so he was angry, which caused my mom to play victim, cry, and say "im trying to give you a nice shower and Michael is being negative".... . . Now, she surprised us with a visit, and I flipped out, I was excited...at first, then my mind went to (how long do I have until she creates something?). So, our visit was good, blah blah, she loved her granddaughter, was happy to see us....then....she says out of the blue one day "have you guys thought about buying a house? You know, you pay more in rent than our mortgage for our home is"....I didn't want to engage, but she kept pressing with statements like "has insert husbands name thought of getting another, better paying job to support you all getting a bouse?"..... Anyway, we get to my house, it's awkward, and then she says "this is our opinion, insert stepdads name we talk about this a lot, but we think you could be happier, and you deserve the world".....like, excuse me?? So I'm silent, trying to hold my emotions (in the past, how emotionally manipulated she has been, I never could share my feelings), then she kept pressing "i hurt your feelings, didn't I?", so I start crying and she immediatwly hugs me while repeating "Oh, I knew I would hurt your feelings, your sensitive, it's okay. We could be 10000% wrong, thats just our opinion, and we're going to tell you our opinion", then I began the exhaustive explanation of "mom, you know I'm happy. We have a beautiful life, and it seems like since I met husband's name you two have been against it, and not supportive".....lastly, mom said "don't tell husband's name about this until I leave, it will only make it more awkward."
It was blown over, mom left, and so I jumped to telling my husband everything. After sitting and processing, I decided that it was completely disrespectful for her to come into our home and say what she did. So I called my stepdad to see if he could help, and was basically met with "you can't let this go. Your mom is upset and you seemed fine, then your frusterated when you talk to husbands name"..... he also said "if we are choosing sides, I am on your moms side 100000%".....cool, so I'm upset, but it doesn't matter to you clearly. Then he said "why am I always roped into these?? This is between you and yout mom, not me, or husbands name, he has no rght in this situation. To which I replied "he is my husband, of course I am going to tell him what happened"
So i texted mom and told her that I needed to talk, and she replied "I'm out, is this something we talked about and cleared up?" And i said what I said abd she shut me off basically, saying that she would talk to me when she was back home. Days later, I have a rock in my stomach, I am physically sick from anxiety, so I tell mom that I need to talk to her, she says this: "I am disappointed and ahoxked that you are doing this, when I had to pull your emotions from you, and then you tell me your emorions are unheard?? What about my emotions, do they not matter?" So i tried calling agsin, she didn't answer but texted "no, I'm not doing this. I am shutting you off because I am no where near ready talking to you, I need time." . . So, you're allowed all the time in the world to process your feelings, but once I give an ounce of rmotions, I'm shut out. Then, you tell me I'm the one that had dragged this out....i mean, I am utterly shocked myself. So after I got all her texts, I broke down in tears, my husband holding me, and I said "I'm done." . . I have not given my mother one thought since that day, and it has given me a new outlook on how easy life is. I know that both of them clearly gave thier opinions, so I'm done with this rollercoaster. My stepdad said he takes my moms side, well I am on my famikies side, my husband and daughter, and so from now on I will be making choices that allow us to be happy, and safe. . . If you have gone NC, or low contact, I would love advice. I've decided I'm not giving her the time of day when she reaches out to spew her feelings.
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2021.09.20 06:13 SunburntDevil Leorio best parent
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2021.09.20 06:13 Find_Music_Source BlakJak - Streets (Official Music Video) ft. Quenga
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2021.09.20 06:13 robbinbanksinc23 If you were an Uchiha and you came home from a late night jog one night and seen this, what would your first reaction be?
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2021.09.20 06:13 troutT20 ECM failure on 2021 Jetta SEL
Just looking for some advice on my new Jetta. Got it in March, mostly happy with it up until a couple weeks ago on a longer drive. Then it seemed to start losing its marbles. The car was purchased with 10 yr 250,000km warranty, as well as a 5 yr prepaid maintenance program.
It had an odd quirk to start, remote start would kill cruise control and error if the cruise control was left on. I was informed it was a known problem with the Atlas as well, and would get a update eventually. (I later discovered it was a known issue since 2018, I'm concerned it won't ever be fixed). Turning off the cruise before turning off the car was a side fix.
After a drive on a long weekend, suddenly though it started to have a mixture of other problems that seemed to escalate.
-Audio just cuts out or doesn't work. Infotainment system functions and responds, just 0 audio. BT, Android Auto, Sirius, nothing. Have to hard reset by holding the power down for 10 seconds.
-BT / Android auto will randomly disconnect, then reconnect.
-lane detection became very inaccurate. Sometimes failing to detect the center lane at all.
-adaptive cruise control sometimes failed to brake or follow the car infront. To the point of discomfort in using the system at all.
-rear camera would remain black or freeze occasionally.
-gas cap failed to open. Several times it took 5-10 minutes to get it to finally open.
-remote start failed to work. At the same time opening the trunk would also not work. Car would lock, unlock, that's it with the fob. Turning the car on and off would resolve this.
-backing up collision would often mistake objects or cars in the far lane, forcing the car to brake even though there was nothing around. Took me a while to back out one day as the road was busy with traffic. Had to fumble through the menu to turn it off. Collision detection going forward and backward often failed to work at all. Sometimes it seemed to be one extreme or the other.
-only happened once prior to taking it for a scheduled service, but I was pulling out of a parking stall and straightened out, then the engine cut out and I started to coast. It just seemed to turn off.
Through all of this, there has been no error lights whatsoever. After this trip, the car still had less than 9000 km on it. Haven't even made it to its first maintenance.
I took it in to my local VW this past weekend. They said they would probably need their entire open time to diagnose so many issues, and would probably need to book another day to complete diagnosis as well.
After only 2 hours they sent me a message, saying a software patch fixed the infotainment system, but the ECM was the cause of all the other issues and needed to be replaced. It was on back order, they would give me a free loaner, but they wanted the car parked. I was also informed they opened up a ticket with VW themselves to have a engineer on hand look at things. (Whatever this means.) They informed me though that they have no ETA on an ECM. It could be weeks, months, no idea.
But minus this potential wait time... Does the ECM really control all of that? I have a limited car knowledge, but it seems that's a lot to be under one item. I'm a little worried I'm going to wait a month or two, then have it not properly address the issues.
If anyone has some more knowledge on these issues, it would be appreciated. If they are not taking the right approach, I'd like it caught early on, instead of waiting months.
A small side note, Lemon laws here are for new cars under 4 years old, and are extra potent under 25k on the odometer. But I need evidence, knowledge, etc to document and present, which I feel I maybe should start doing anyway.
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2021.09.20 06:13 cakenose Gender presentation is funny
It’s like, ok, I’m a lesbian. I’m definitely a lipstick lez physically, but I got the soul of a butch. but also damn I really want to fucking be timothee chalamet. That is all.
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2021.09.20 06:13 xMasterOfNone Video game easter egg code! Can someone tell me where to begin?
I was playing COD and found a weird code. I'm not 100% sure, but I think it's an Easter egg type thing. I don't know what type of code it is, so I have no clue where to begin.
A388 - A391 D399 - C455
Any help is appreciated!
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2021.09.20 06:13 ArtAltAccount (NSFW) thoughts on my OC ?
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2021.09.20 06:13 boopbaboop ELI5: How does an Apple Watch or Fitbit “know” when you’re asleep (vs. awake but relaxed) or what stage of sleep you’re in?
2021.09.20 06:13 greenishfroggy Got my wisdom teeth removed and I started to get the pop rock sound sensation when I eat normal food
Hey, So I got my wisdom teeth (upper ones) removed 4 months ago and since then I’ve started to get the typical pop rock sound sensation whenever I eat. I espacially get it with onions and salad, often ramen. It’s super weird and I have no idea what could lead to this. Maybe somebody knows what it could be. Female, 25, healthy, 5’7 tall, 145 lbs heavy, no smoking, 2 drinks a week, european
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2021.09.20 06:13 SuperSaiyanSasuke [WTS] Cerakoted 10.5" Upper (BKF,Odin Works,Strike,RTB,SLR), Ranger Point Precision Marlin Handguard, Streamlight HL-X,Glock 17/9mm stuff (CMC,Suarez) $20-$700 [AK]
Hey guys want to sell some of my stuff to fund a new build.
10.5" 300 Blackout Upper $700
B. King's Firearms MOD1 Upper and Handguard cerakoted "Shadowcam Urban"
Odin Works 10.5" Barrel w/ Gas Block
RightToBear Lightweight NiB Carrier
SLR Rifleworks 7.62 Hybrid Comp (Grey)
Rainier Mod 2 Avalanche CH
Strike Industries Forward Assist and Dust Cover
Shot around 100 rounds through it. Shoots great but unfortunately its hard to find 300 blackout where I live. Willing to split if upper doesn't sell.
Ranger Point Marlin Handguard $130
Fits Marlin's with tenons. Was going to install it on my 1895 but sold it before I got a chance. New uninstalled, includes hardware.
Streamlight Protac HL-X $100
Brand new still in box.
CMC Glock 17 Barrel (Bronze) $120
Installed but never fired. Went with a threaded barrel.
Suarez Face Shooter w/ Glock Oem Trigger Bar $30
Installed but never fired. Polished the trigger bar up.
Glock Store Stainless Recoil Spring (G17) $20
Shot a few mags and put the oem recoil spring back in before selling the gun. Stock 17lbs spring. Fits the g17 unsure what other guns it will go on.
Magpul 9mm Glock Mags $20
One 17 rounder one 21 rounder. Both for $20.
Paypal, Zelle, Crypto accepted. This is my first post so sorry if my formatting is shit.
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2021.09.20 06:13 Blakakke69 My one criticism of this game
It really needs to be able to save your progress as long as you don’t die. Expecting me to devote at least 4 hours to beat a run is a little ridiculous.
And no I’m not leaving the game open and putting my system in sleep mode. Game dev’s should not be in charge of what I do outside of their game. It’s absolutely ridiculous thinking that’s acceptable.
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